Nowadays I hear this sentence more than I should be hearing.
Guys are giving themselves this stupid excuse to rebel. I find it damn childish and stupid to do that.
Guy who think that way/ seriously live that way, are brainless people.
Okay, this is my own opinion.
I think it all comes down to what kind of girl are you looking for. Guys like their girlfriends to wear less because they can show off how beautiful their girlfriends are etc. (Scram, if you're the kind who tells your girlfriend to cover up just because you want your girl to know you 'really' care. Bullshit.)
I know I'm on a very dangerous topic. haha. I know guys will NEVER admit to their mistakes. Well, most.
A potential wife-to-be girl, would NEVER choose a guy who has this mindset. NEVER. If you're looking for those girls who creates havoc just as much as you are, then okay, this mindset works perfectly for you. Congrats then.
It's the hard, cold fact that guys WILL look for innocent, nice girls as wives, is it not?
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It's hard to grow up. It's hard to know that one is childish. Mom always tells me straight in face that I'm childish. When I really was, I denied the fact. Of cause I'll never be as mature as she is (because her age will never be less than mine, ever!), but as I look back at the things I did in the past.. I laugh at myself.
Sometimes you can be mature to know that you're childish. The ones that are childish childish, denies it.
Growing up is a process everyone goes through. Some faster, some slower. There are people who are still as childish even when they are 50 or even older. I don't get it why people get so offended when someone tells them they are childish. Of cause I know how it feels to know people are thinking of you in that way. It feels awful.
BUT, why get offended over something everyone has been through? The one telling you that you are childish, probably has been told he/she was childish before.
Now, you'll have to see who tells you that statement (you're childish). If you hear it from someone who just wanna tell you that to piss you off, forget that statement. No point arguing with him/her, it just shows you're as childish as him/her.
However, if you're hearing from someone who cares for you, isn't it worth it to go back and think through what he/she just said?
Everyone is childish, in their own ways. No one can be 100% mature. As the Bible tells us, no one is perfect but God.
Complicated, I know. That's me. I'm a very complicated person. haha.
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Never mind if no one understands what I'm trying to say. I just want to rant. haha.
I'm at work now, having nothing to do. So, I'm blogging. bahh~
Bye!
Love,
Char
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